こんにちは!結婚相談所埼玉(株)ア
イクスエージェンシーの山本哲哉
です。
今日もよろしくお願いします。

今日は「ほめること」の大切さを書き
ますね。

ほめられて悪い気持ちのする人は、あ
まりいないのではないでしょうか?

最近、「ほめること」がいろいろなこ
とで注目されていますね。

これは、心理学的にいうと、人間には
「自己肯定欲求」があるというところ
からきています。

人間は誰しも、「自分を認めてほしい」
「評価してほしい」という欲求があり
ます。これを満たされることで、自己
肯定感を高めることができます。

ですから、自分のことをほめてくれた
り、認めてくれる人にはとても好意的
な気持ちになるのです。

それを考えると、異性にほめられると
その人を好きになる可能性がとても高
くなりますよね。

「◯◯さんて、何でも知っているんで
すね!すごーい。」

「◯◯さんて、仕事にとても情熱を持
って取り組んでいるんですね!
すごいです!」

「◯◯さんて、とてもオシャレですね。
今日のネクタイ、ステキです。」

「◯◯さんはスーツがとても似合いま
すね。」

「◯◯さんて、スポーツマンなんです
ね!すごーい。」

などなど、「ほめる」ことはたくさん
ありますね。

お相手は、

「こんなふうに自分を認めてくれる人
となら、幸せになれるだろうな。」

と感じてくるでしょう。

ただこれは、勘違いしてほしくないの
は、「テクニック」ではないというこ
とです。

心から「お相手を尊敬する気持ち」を
持つことが大切ですね。

常にお相手のいいところを認めて、口
に出す事です。

「テクニック」でほめると、気持ちを
読まれてしまいます。

結婚してからも、お互いのことを認め
て、尊敬する気持ちを忘れない夫婦は
ずっと幸せ一杯の人生が送れますよ。
(^-^)

「好かれたければ、まずほめよ!」

です!

(^-^)

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今日も最後までお読みいただき、本当
にありがとうございます。

婚活をお考えの皆様、気になったらご
ったらご連絡ください。

ご一緒にコーヒーでも飲みましょう。

 

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